Friday, May 29

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Oh. my. goodness. I am so excited. I didn't think I would be able to but the stars magically aligned and now I will be attending The Sunday Wedding at the Ace Hotel!!!! I'll be driving up Sunday afternoon and back in time for work Monday morning (yes, I do realize that I'm nuts). Now I just have to pack a snazzy outfit! Is anyone else going?

The Fresh Air Fund

A couple of days ago I received an email from Sara at the Fresh Air Fund. The Fresh Air Fund is a non-profit organization that provides free summer vacations to New York City children from low-income communities. They spend time in small town host homes as well as Fresh Air camps.
I had never heard of this program before Sara wrote me but looking through the website and the photos I was reminded of my own experience living in a pretty small town where being outdoors and having room to explore was just part of growing up. I spent most of my childhood out of doors in the woods, in fields, in streams and I can't even imagine how different I would be if those things hadn't been accessible to me. I also attended summer camp every year and almost every weekend our family would spend a day "discovering" which usually involved us getting lost but also allowed us to experience new places and things. When I was younger, I did take for granted these things and assumed that every kid grew up this way. There are so many children, however, that can't just get out of the crowded, hot city to go for a hike or jump in a lake. I love that there is a program like this for them to experience the things I cherished as a kid as well as an adult.

From now until the end of June, every contribution that is made to Fresh Air will be matched. So if you give $25 Fresh Air will get $50. You can also give by volunteering to be a host family for a summer. Learn more here and here.

I have decided to donate a proceed of all Auburn & Ivory sponsorships to the fund so if you want to give AND be an A&I sponsor click here.

Thursday, May 28

Become a Sponsor this June!


I am now taking requests for June sponsors. I will be happy to work with small businesses and blogs. We currently have close to 5,000 visitors a month and 250 subscribers on google.

Click here or email me at auburnandivory(at)gmail(dot)com if you have any questions.

UPDATE: A proceed of all June sponsorships will go to The Fresh Air Fund!

Owl Alert

I need your help, readers and friends. My expecting friend has asked for some help in the nursery department. She is decorating for her new baby girl in browns, pinks, creams and OWLS! We are on the hunt for the perfect plush owl. Any ideas?
{image via pop art cafe}

Wednesday, May 27

Look du Rue


Oh my gah! Yo Gabba Gabba and Gogurt Street Style (Thank you, Paloma!).

11 Questions with Christine of Pretty Pretty Paper

Christine of

Christine owns the sweet "one-of-a-kind correspondence" shop CEVD as well as the Etsy store Pretty Pretty Paper. Thank you, Christine, for taking the time to answer these for me!




1. What was the turning point in your life that made you decide to work for yourself? What were you doing before this?
i had been working for a custom stationery studio for about a year when things changed and the studio closed. it was just me and the owner and i LOVED it so you can imagine how sad i was. after that i spent some time in the corporate world doing all of the graphic design for a handbag company. it was not my cup of tea. i didn't like the constraints that working for a medium-large(ish) company came along with. everything i did was critiqued my a minimum of four different people that didn't talk to one and other. plus there wasn't a lot of room for creativity and i quickly discovered that i needed a lot of room for creativity. so the thoughts slowly crept into my head and then finally i got the nerve to do it.

2. What was your first concrete step after making that decision?
business cards. i had them made before i even met with my accountant ... before i set up a business bank account ... before a lot of things that i probably should have done first.

3. What did you find to be the most difficult thing when you decided to make your business your full time job? What one thing do you wish you had known before starting your venture?
after severing my ties with a steady pay check things changed, and pretty dramatically. all i can say is thank goodness i have a husband that is as committed to my business as i am. seriously if it wasn't for him i don't think i would have been able to make it through the first six months.



4. Who did you go to for advice? What resources were most helpful for you?
the advice i seek comes from everywhere. my husband, my friends, the wee little blogging community i have found myself part of, my old boss and my parents. and my most useful resource has been and most likely will be an accountant. he doesn't do much for the creative side of the venture but he certainly helps out with every other aspect.

5. Being compensated fairly for a service seems to be a difficult thing for a lot of people starting out. How did you decide on pricing? Do you think you were fair to yourself in the beginning?
in the beginning i was practically giving away my work .. no, in fact i was absolutely giving it away. the first few (paying) customers i had didn't always cover what it cost me to print the invites, let alone cover my time designing them. but it was worth it. i am still working to obtain my pricing goals but am being a lot more fair to myself. i think it is a constant battle and i do try to work with EVERY budget that comes through the door, and for the most part i am able to.

6. How did you get your name out there in the beginning? What was the most helpful marketing tool? What didn’t work at all?
i am still looking for the perfect marketing tool, and hope i have found it by way of my new pr company!! but other than that i started a blog, started communicating with local wedding planners, did a couple of event invites for big bridal events and tried my hardest to talk to people in the wedding world. so far making the connections with other vendors hasn't exactly proven to be the best client generating way to go about it.


7. Describe your first “sale” or “event”? Did it go well? What did you learn from your first few endeavors?
my first paid invitation job went pretty well. my bride was super picky (which was actually a plus) and relatively decisive. this made the designing process a snap. the printing process however ... well i just didn't pay enough attention to the details. we ended up going over the agreed upon budget because i just couldn't figure out how to charge her. so in the end she received a rocking good deal on a pretty snazzy set of letterpress invites.

8. There are so many wedding-related businesses out there now. How do you separate yourself from the rest of the pack?
oye, there are so many people out there doing what i am doing so it is hard. i try to separate myself through my service. my favorite part of my job is working with other people to help them get their ideas on paper. the discussions and meetings and phones calls are by far the best part. i don't limit my clients to a certain number of proofs or re-works. i really want them to be thrilled with their invite and lets face it that can't always be done with three pdfs.

9. How do you keep things fresh? Where do you go for inspiration?
the number one source of my inspiration comes from my clients. everyone i have had the pleasure to work with has brought such a new a refreshing perspective and i can't help but credit that for most of my creativity. however i do like to wander around galleries and museums and paper stores ... not to mention spend all of my free time scouring blogs for new ideas.


10. What is the most challenging thing about being your own boss? What is the most rewarding (besides, of course, being your own boss)?
i love the freedom. love it. i don't have a certain amount of vacation days i need to keep track of, i am not required to work from 9-5 (though honestly i typically put in much longer days than that), i can work from anywhere and still have time to do the home things that i love so much ... walking my dog, cooking ... meeting my husband for lunch 45 minutes away. the hard part is i don't always have someone to go to for work approval. i really like to have other people look at the work i do before i send it back to my clients, i tend to get attached to some pieces that just don't work.

11. What advice do you have for people who are thinking about starting their own small business who may not necessarily have a lot of prior business experience?
i don't think that business experience is a must, but one absolutely must have a clear idea of your concept and goals. i would highly recommend writing a business plan for yourself. wether or not you are planning on filing for any kind of funding it is good to get your ideas down on paper. it keeps you more organized and allows you to be more true to your ideas. plus dabbling doesn't seem to work. you have to go all out and dedicate yourself entirely to your business ... if you don't who will. and after all you are going in to business for yourself because you want to do something for yourself.

Next week: Elise of Sweet Penelope

Tuesday, May 26

Last Weekend's Parties

I took some polaroids of the cupcakes I made for the Stone Brewery birthday party. Here is what the party planner had to say:

"Several people told me that they were the best cupcakes anyone had ever eaten in their lives. Just to illustrate the effect they had, we were a large party of thirteen people that had been loud and chatty and having fun all night. When the cupcakes were served, absolute silence descended on the table as everyone ignored their friends and concentrated only on the cupcakes. And minutes before everyone had been complaining that they were so full they wouldn't be eating for another week, and then everyone was asking for seconds!"


And even more cupcakes! Yes, I was a baking machine!
Chocolate Covered Banana!

Mascarpone Cheese with Strawberry Glaze

Creative New Yorkers

Have you seen this? Inside peeks into the New York homes of some super creative people through the eyes of French photographer, Valerie Dray.


PS: How hot does "bloggueuse" sound? mmmm.

70s Bedhead

I love this photo. I feel like it could have been taken at the Ace Hotel. Or a teepee. Even better.

Monday, May 25

Loving

shades of sage and coral right now.
{photos via you are my fave and fondly seen}

Friday, May 22

Happy Day!

{us after too much champagne, cupcakes and rockin' out in our heels - mid-day no less!}

And a happy birthday to two of my lovelies! Ashley (and her twin) today and Sera next week! I love you and I miss you! Check your mailboxes for goodies!

{photo via lake jane}

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I hope you all have a great and goofy weekend! I'll be baking some Stone-inspired cupcakes for my first cupcake order, shopping, and maybe drinking some of these with friends on Monday.

{photo via the paper pony}

Thursday, May 21

ACE HOTEL: Palm Springs

I am obsessed with the Ace Hotels especially the Palm Springs location. This is exactly what I want my house to look like. It brings to mind 70s California, Henry Diltz and The Doors. I love that the rooms have record players. Not sure why I would need to stay in a hotel to listen to records when I can do that at home but I have a feeling my Gram Parsons albums would sound so much better in this environment. Check out Michael Antonia's photo shoot there with his wife and baby (aka the most gorgeous family in the world).

FREE Yudo Demo at Michaels

I was looking up cake decorating classes at my local Michaels and I saw that they were having a free Yudo demo this weekend. You know Yudu? The new Gocco? I think I'm going to check it out!

Wednesday, May 20

Things That Make You Go Aw

"The Jesusita Fire in Santa Barbara, CA last week caused these two to take shelter together. The fawn is 3 days old and the bobcat about 3 weeks. The fawn came from somewhere in the fire and the bobcat from Carpentaria. They immediately bonded and snuggled together under a desk in the Santa Barbara County Dispatch Office for several hours."

11 Questions with Noa of Feather Love

Noa of Feather Love!


1. What was the turning point in your life that made you decide to work for yourself? What were you doing before this?
I always sort of did freelance work as a designer (graphic, web & flash) but I had a contractual flash design job for about a year and once that came to an almost-end, I freaked out and decided to move on this idea I was bouncing around in my head of being a wedding photographer. Plus I had really been grooving on working from home during that time- it ruled. As you know, being a bride makes you spend WAY too much time on wedding sites, blogs, and looking at photographers & their work. I was becoming convinced that I could do it. And as from the very beginning I had a style in mind that nobody else was really doing. I always did sort of work for myself but never like this. Most wedding photographers "ease" into it by keeping their regular day job. I did not.

2. What was your first concrete step after making that decision?
I went and got my fictitious business name, a license, and some business cards. Then asked my super-stylish friends (Josh & Kristen of Mountain Home) if they would pose for me, e-session style, so that I could show the style of work I wanted to do. Their session is still one of the ones people comment on the most. It was 100% my style. Then I started designing my website after that.


3. What did you find to be the most difficult thing when you decided to make your business your full time job? What one thing do you wish you had known before starting your venture?
I wish had known that I should be more fearless with my style and do EXACTLY what I wanted, not what I thought people wanted. I was always somewhat fearless, but I never went “the Full Monty” so to speak. As soon as I did though, I got tons more attention. I went to The Image Is Found's Shootshop & that finally convinced me to just do it all the way-- as Nate so eloquently put it "grow some balls", don't be "safe". Show your style. The most difficult thing when I decided to make it my full time job? Uhm, money. And plus it didn't feel that great to sort of be financially partially-dependent on someone else (Stuart was my fiancĂ© at the time) when I had been fiercely independent for so much of my life... but then I got married and I got used to the concept and you start to see it differently: it's not really depending on each other, it's each partner helping the other make their dreams come true. Stuart and I are very supportive of each others arts, careers, & dreams…


4. Who did you go to for advice? What resources were most helpful for you?
There was a small business center advice thingy downtown, they were ok. But honestly- I really need someone else to handle all that sort of business stuff for me if I want to remain on the creative side of my business. Taking care of that stuff is a pain in my ass. I can do it, but it’s like one or the other, both takes too much and my job already takes millions of hours every week. Oh, and there was also my dad and sister, both entrepreneurs who offered up advice. Other than that, most recently I would say Shootshop (The Image Is Found) was certainly helpful. Very pricey, but for me it was well worth it.


5. Being compensated fairly for a service seems to be a difficult thing for a lot of people starting out. How did you decide on pricing? Do you think you were fair to yourself in the beginning?
No, I don't think I have ever priced myself right- especially in the beginning. It’s hard for artists to put a tag on their work. At first, I really just wanted to get work. On May 15th though, when my rates go up, I feel like I will finally have a good competitive price list that’s still affordable but also reflects my originality- and that’s something people will choose to pay for if they want it. I feel like it also helps me choose my clients.

6. How did you get your name out there in the beginning? What was the most helpful marketing tool? What didn’t work at all?
Luckily I was a flash/web/graphic designer for many years before. So my website was probably the best thing I had at the time and I have always put all my heart and perfectionism into designing my web sites. The worst thing I ever did was take my first year's profit and blow ALL of it on a bridal bazaar because that's what other vendors told me to do. I didn't even book one wedding from it. And not only did it suck, it was lame too. There was really horrible photography there… so far from what I was doing & what I was interested in that nobody understood my work, at all. Bridal bazaar was like a gazillion zombie brides walking around having thousands of flyers being shoved into their hands and drinking their slurpee dessert-thingy’s from the booth next door all over my srsly expensive albums that I put every bit of money I had earned into. No thanks. Now the best marketing tool for sure in my opinion is the internets, blogs etc. Oh and they are like free, so that rules. I say, use what you have: if you can design websites, design yours... if you have a blog that tons of people read-- use it! Find creative ways to put your name out there. Especially if you are “different” or considered an “alternative” or “indie” wedding vendor. Bridal Bazaar might not be the place for you.


7. Describe your first “sale” or “event”? Did it go well? What did you learn from your first few endeavors?

It went fine, luckily. I was terrified, nervous as hell, but the gigs went well overall. Couple of snags like a bride's dad who didn't want to pay me full price etc. I learned very quickly to get FULLY PAID BEFORE A WEDDING, no matter what your client says or how sweet they are- you won’t be talking money with the bride and groom that day so get all that handled before the wedding. What I learned from the first few gigs was that it was really terrifying to do this dream of mine, but I wanted to do it anyway.


8. There are so many wedding-related businesses out there now. How do you separate yourself from the rest of the pack?
I make things look how I want them to look. What's pleasing to me, my eye, and my taste- not what I think is pleasing to others... if you are trying to please others, your job will never be done. You are the artist so they are depending on you to show them what’s beautiful from your perspective. Plus I am honest & I blog how I talk. I have nothing to hide... I think people want to see that, that you are human, an artist, so that they can feel confident in you based on who you are and what you do. I separate myself from the rest because I come up with new and fresh ideas that nobody else has done and my style is distinct. You can see a photographers work online and sometimes know right away who shot it. Like Max Wagner and Labor of Love. You know it’s their work immediately. That’s because they have their own style and they are constantly developing their art, and it’s obvious that they love what they do. I love that.



9. How do you keep things fresh? Where do you go for inspiration?
Your blog! ;) Well, I don’t go to wedding photographer's blogs to look at their work. Unless I end up seeing their work on another blog, but it’s important for me to look at other types of photography & art: fashion, music, vintage photography, films, magazines & album covers etc… Sometimes my dreams influence me, seriously. I am learning to trust myself more and follow my gut more as I continue to develop as an artist.


10. What is the most challenging thing about being your own boss? What is the most rewarding (besides, of course, being your own boss)? Challenging?
It’s hard to keep on top of business administrative stuff AND do all my editing AND be creative AND do my many forms of art... especially if you are a perfectionist. Eventually I will hire some peeps to help out. You HAVE to love what you do intensely because it takes many hours of your life. It doesn't feel like overtime when you really love it- you don't even really notice if you just worked 16 hours. In any other job, I couldn't wait to leave or be done for the day. Another really challenging thing is that all the stress falls on to your shoulders, there isn't some boss somewhere that has to deal with the stress but still guarantees you a paycheck at the end of the day. It’s a whole other kind of stress when it’s your business. You have to be pretty tough. That can be intense.... Most rewarding? Make my own hours. Work from home. Working with my husband and making art together! I can totally challenge my own authority and win sometimes ;) Being creative. Not having to work in a fluorescent-lit office all day. Taking breaks whenever I damn-well feel like it and for as long as I want. Taking a random day off sometimes... although most of the time it doesn't work- I end up working because I love it. Oh also, I get to make all the creative decisions and I don't have to consult in anyone or deal with what other people want, which is usually what happens when you work for someone else.

11. What advice do you have for people who are thinking about starting their own small business who may not necessarily have a lot of prior business experience?
Read the E-Myth. Follow your gut creatively. In the beginning it's usually just you so you have to do it all. Make up challenging creative projects for yourself. Even if you are afraid people won't like your ideas, do them anyway, don't be safe because too many others are and then you won't stand out from the crowd. Plus, nobody ever got anywhere from being concerned about what other people think. You need elephant skin! And maybe also keep your day job until you have enough business to quit it, too stressful otherwise. I would know. You have to know what your personality type is and learn to accept it & work with it to the best of your ability... Make it work for you! If you have had people call you "pushy" or "bossy" a lot in your life, you will probably become an excellent entrepreneur. It usually means you are efficient and can get things done. Once you accept the type of person you are, then you can use it to your benefit, in a positive way. Oh, and also another piece of advice: quit thinking about starting your own business and JUST DO IT! You don’t need to know that much, you can learn as you go- just like with anything else. One more very important thing: don’t ever half-ass anything. If you aren’t willing to do it 120%, you probably won’t be competitive enough to succeed.



Thank you, Noa! You have been such an inspiration and a great friend!


Clare Grill's Cakes


Cake

When You Get That Old

My nana had this trippy fruit and berries wallpaper in her house when I was little. My sister and I would pretend we were in Willy Wonka's factory and lick the walls. I'm afraid that Clare Grill's cake paintings would have a similar effect on me and if I had them in my house Captain would catch me licking the canvas.
UPDATE: Watch out for a print of Cake up on 20x200!

Tuesday, May 19

My Own Little Slice of...

I love that a once-Parisian model and fashion photographer are the delicious couple behind Heaven - the uber-adorable and super-scrumptious bakery in upstate NY.


This is my dream. To open up a picture perfect bakery with Captain (equipped with beer garden, of course) and just bake and frost all day long. Now I just need a couple investors to make this thing happen. I will make you cupcakes for life...trust me it will be worth it!

{found via Lake Jane and Bliss and Feather Love}

Monday, May 18

The Haystack Needle Q & A


Jen of the haystack needle was sweet enough to think of me for her "lost and found" q & a series. Check it out for my hits and (mostly) misses on getting organized. I think I'll take some of my own advice and get into the office this weekend to clean things up a bit.

Friday, May 15

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I hope your weekend is full of wonder and magic!
  • Find your sweet life! Love the inspiration on Lolalina!
  • My photo on lovelology! And a beautiful mag I need in my life!
  • Someday soon I will live here!
  • I need organization in my life...these labels are motivating me!
  • Blonde Redhead reissued! Thanks, Joanna! (love the feather in the boot)

xo.

{photo from the ever incredible Cari Ann}



Wednesday, May 13

Figuring out what to be when I grow up (I don't think you're ever too old to figure this out!) is always at the forefront of my mind. I am an idea person. Sometimes I drink too much coffee in the morning and I come up with all these crazy ideas. The problem is I don't know what to do with them after the initial brainstorm session. I decided to get into touch with a bunch of business-savvy folk that I admire and ask them how they did it. I figured you guys could find some inspiration from their answers as well!

Up first, you know him, you love him...Mr. Michael Antonia of The Flashdance! I am beyond thrilled that Michael agreed to answer my questions. (and head on over to Perfect Bound for some FlashDance guest blogging!)



1. What was the turning point in your life that made you decide to work for yourself? What were you doing before this?
I have always been freelance so it wasn't a big jump as much as it was cutting out the middle man! I have toured as a dj since 2002 and in addition did a ton of event production, concert producing, and advertising/marketing for gigantic corporations such as Nike, Microsoft, Target and Product (red) but I also did a lot of small events for indie film festivals, local museums, artists, fashion shows etc. The turning point was finding out my wife was pregnant... I knew I couldn't hack the desk job, but also couldn't be on the road 6 months of the year. The Flashdance is the perfect compromise.

2. What was your first concrete step after making that decision?
Turning down work... That was incredibly hard because the money was good, and I was getting really stir crazy being home all of the time. During that time I built the blog.

3. What did you find to be the most difficult thing when you decided to make your business your full time job? What one thing do you wish you had known before starting your venture?
The most difficult thing now is finding the time. If I could do anything over again it would be to start 5 years ago! Now I am juggling this business, starting another, and I have a 5 month old. I basically never sleep.

4. Who did you go to for advice? What resources were most helpful for you?
Well my business partner (Whitney Our Labor of Love) and I have worked together since the late 90's and OLOL has been through all of the same things that Flashdance is going through now so he is a wonderful resource. Beyond that marketing and advertising is something that I have a lot of experience with and I have been djing so long that I don't really have to think about that anymore... One thing that is different is dealing with so many wedding professionals. In the music industry (majority of my background) people are so hostile, and way too cool! So you really have to play games with them and schmooze a lot. I find wedding people to be way more real and WAY more approachable, I have learned a lot from my blogging pals.

5. Being compensated fairly for a service seems to be a difficult thing for a lot of people starting out. How did you decide on pricing? Do you think you were fair to yourself in the beginning?
My prices are pretty fair but I'm not trying to undercut my competetors. I provide a unique service, if you want it you'll pay for it. The last thing I want to do is play weddings for people looking for a bargain! If someone is awesome, their wedding is going to be rad, and they don't have the cash I might agree to meet them and work with them on prices. Mostly, I try to stay true to my rates, I find that people typically come around. A wedding budget is always subject to change!

6. How did you get your name out there in the beginning? What was the most helpful marketing tool? What didn’t work at all?
I partnered with some really popular photographers who have a great reputation so that was my foot in the door, but I provide something that most don't and that is the real challenge. I don't advertise really I prefer to spend money on marketing right now.

7. Describe your first “sale” or “event”? Did it go well? What did you learn from your first few endeavors?
The first wedding we did as Flashdance was this one and it couldn't have been better. They are a perfect couple with incredible friends, they have great style and were really fun to work with. We have all done a lot of weddings in the past before Flashdance so it isn't really a first event. One thing I have learned is to be more picky about my clients, because I want everyone to be like Shana & Rob. Sadly most are not like that.

8. There are so many wedding-related businesses out there now. How do you separate yourself from the rest of the pack?
We all offer something pretty specific. Anyone would be interested in beautiful pictures, and a great dj but we don't market or advertise to everyone. We are trying to be a boutique not a warehouse. I think that a lot of wedding vendors try to offer something for everyone, we try to offer something for people who are like us.

9. How do you keep things fresh? Where do you go for inspiration?
The record store and the book store. If I tell you more than that my stuff won't be very fresh now will it?

10. What is the most challenging thing about being your own boss? What is the most rewarding (besides, of course, being your own boss)?
It is difficult to call it a day when you know how much more there is to do. It is amazing to take all the tools I have acquired over the years and apply them to my product instead of some corporation that I probably don't like, or for a product that I don't believe in... It is also great to finally have an outlet for all of the ideas I have had that everyone thought were too this, or too that! Ha! they were right, they were TOO THIS for them... Just right for me.

11. What advice do you have for people who are thinking about starting their own small business who may not necessarily have a lot of prior business experience? Make sure it is something that you really love to do, and make sure you are cool with working 12-15 hour days for little or no money for months, sometimes longer... Everyone glamorizes owning your own company, and sure it can be amazing, but you have to do things that are below you in every way, all day, everyday... You have to love what you are doing to be able to get up in the morning and do that to yourself everyday. There are easier ways to earn a buck.

Thank you, Michael! You are the best! Up next...Feather Love!

(all photos via The Flashdance}